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"It is well to define what is to be understood by the term 'Best Society' and why its authority is recognized ... Best Society is not a fellowship of the wealthy, nor does it seek to exclude those who are not of exalted birth; but it is an association of gentle-folk, of which good form in speech, charm of manner, knowledge of the social amenities, and instinctive consideration for the feelings of others, are the credentials by which society the world over recognizes its chosen members." -Emily Post, Etiquette, 1922